Mastering Radical Acceptance last Saturday with our most earnest ongoing coaching group and few others.
Here is the crux for you:
Step 1: Love everything exactly the way it is, in your outer world. Yet there will be aspects of the outer world that might not get accepted and will cause disturbances in inner world.
Forgiving has never been easy for me. Being a Sagittarian (which is a fire sign) on one hand and the venomous Snake (my Chinese sign) on another, I would always place honour above forgiveness.
Recently, a friend mentioned that his prime learning from our two great epics –Ramayana and Mahabharata – is that one should stand up against dis-honor. Both the epics almost came across as scriptures professing honor (and by extension vengeance) instead of professing love. I was quick to resonate.